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CHRISTIAN SINGLES; DEFEAT DEPRESSION BY HEALING YOUR MEMORIES

Chapter 27. Solution #2 Is Inner Healing Still Controversial? Can We Judge It By It’s Fruits?

This chapter is giving Grandma fits because #1 Inner Healing has helped many people heal and forgive, but #2, it’s critics see danger in the practice, mostly due to the connection it has with questionable Jungian influence and alleged original ties to New Age notions.

I can remember back when President Jimmy Carter’s sister, Ruth Carter Stapleton, defended her book, “The Gift Of Inner Healing.” Her critics called it heresy and warned Christians not to try it. Mrs. Stapleton died some years ago, but the controversy lives on, though the practice of healing of memories has support now from many Christian leaders, both Protestant and Catholic, and it appears to be mainstream.

The way it is taught now is somewhat different from the early days, and I think many of those first criticisms have caused pastors, counselors and Christian psychologists to modify the way they take a person through the practice. But Christian singles, if you feel uncomfortable about trying it, please refrain, ask your pastor and other Christians you trust if they can recommend it. Pray for the Lord’s guidance. He may want to heal your memories in a completely different way! In fact, prayer and forgiveness for those who have hurt you in childhood may be all you need to heal those painful memories that cause loneliness and depression. Many times we think we have forgiven people in our past who have harmed us, but we really haven’t. Do you want to know if you have truly forgiven someone who has hurt you? Try this: Think of a person you have forgiven. Do you still feel the pain their cruel acts caused? This is your sign that you have not completely given the memory to the Lord, forgiven and forgotten. Remember, Christian singles, forgiveness is an act of the will. You do it because God requires us to forgive, so that He can forgive our trespasses against others. This does not mean that you have to go to the person who hurt you and tell them they are forgiven, indeed, some of them might be dead now. A grievous act against a child is very hard to forgive, but your mental and spiritual health depends upon using your will to forgive someone who does not deserve it! Then you ask the Lord to remove the memory from you, so that depression, shame and other torment can be eradicated, and you can live a victorious life, free from nightmares of the past. As you are feeding on the Bible’s promises, granted to those who have overcome all hatred and bitterness, you can indeed renew your mind and become a new creation in Christ. Those old memories will no longer be able to rob you of your joy.

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