CHRISTIAN SINGLE’S GUIDE TO PERSONALITY DISORDERS
WHICH CAUSE DEPRESSION FOR BOTH THE PERPETRATOR AND THEIR VICTIMS
Chapter 24. Narcissism: “I Love Me, I Love Me Not”
How Does Narcissism Begin? Nature or Nurture?
As the child grows, begins walking and talking, parents can make
either of two mistakes; they can be overly permissive or abusive.
My two middle aged female narcissists (whom I will refer to as “lab
specimens“, not out of disrespect, but to drive home the point that
they are not “normal” people. They have terrorized their children,
spouses, parents and others, and should be studied to prevent other
people suffering from the same hellish fury.) The parents of one were
overly permissive and the other woman’s father was very abusive. I
will give them anonymous nicknames to hide their identity from people
who know me; the pretty one will be named “Princess” and the other
woman will be called “Python.” Christian singles, don’t cringe
or get a case of the vapors over my nicknaming one a snake! I know you
have tender, sweet hearts. But truth be told, both are snakes in the
grass to their long list of victims! “Princess’s nickname fits the
way her doting father and mother brought her up. An only child, her
upper-middle class parents worshiped the ground she walked on. She had
everything a child could want lavished upon her, and she knew no
boundaries; she could do anything to anyone and get away with it,
because Daddy could not bear to discipline her. When she ran roughshod
over neighborhood children, the beguiled parents could find no fault
in her. She always was beautiful, and didn’t go through a gawky
stage, like other girls. The unknown part of her life, that which
could have caused her promiscuity, could have been anything from
molestation to early sexual activity. But many narcissists, male and
female, are promiscuous, perhaps because they need constant attention
and they absolutely crave the adoration of someone who is
head-over-heels in love with them. Remember, the narcissist never
loves any of his or her conquests (you could call them trophies) in
return. They are merely “stage props” needed to parade before
those people she wants to impress, as she plays her role as
seductress. So Princess had a childhood most children might envy, but
she was cheated out of one crucial thing, LIMITS that forced her to
consider the feelings of others.
