CHRISTIAN SINGLE’S GUIDE TO PERSONALITY DISORDERS
WHICH CAUSE DEPRESSION FOR BOTH THE PERPETRATOR AND THEIR VICTIMS
Chapter 24. Narcissism: “I Love Me, I Love Me Not”
The First Signs Of A Malignant Narcissist
8. Christian singles - He has NO empathy for others. Watch,
(without his knowledge) his reaction to news of a death, serious
illness or injury to someone he knows. Watch how he treats poor
people, or how he treats waitresses, clerks, and neighbor’s
children. These will be the people he will tear apart with his caustic
sarcasm and cruel words when he no longer has to “be nice” around
you.
9. He may be in a big rush to get married. Narcissists are afraid
of growing old, alone. They also need a “punching bag” at home to
release their rage. He is so blind to the fact that he loses everyone
he tries to ensnare, due to his violent behavior, that he blames his
loss of a victim (mate) on other circumstances, not himself.
10. Gradually, he will pull you away from your friends and family,
finding fault with each one, or complaining that you don’t spend
enough time with him, or that he feels lonely when you are gone. It
may seem like a compliment, but he wants to destroy your network of
people who love you and want you to be safe and happy.
11. In order to eventually control you, he will have to break down
your sense of worth, your self esteem. Little, negative comments about
your appearance, abilities, intelligence, or other personal attributes
will surface, and you will find yourself wanting to be better, to be
perfect for him. Just remember, this is NOT the way a person in love
acts, Christian singles! - Usually people in love are oblivious to
their loved one’s imperfections, or they overlook them, realizing
that they are not perfect either! The last thing they want to do is
to hurt the one they love.
