CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
I don’t know if this revealing of the workings of a
man’s mind will be just as fun, if the shoe is on the
other foot. But it might be fun for you Christian single
men to try going on a “Girl’s Night Out!” with your
lady. I’m assuming she will not take you to a spa for a
facial, but you might be surprised where she might bring
you, to share what it is like to be a woman in the 21st
century. Her girl talk might surprise you too. Maybe
Christian women don’t discuss makeup, dates or soap
operas? It probably would depend on whom they are talking
to; as conversations are customized to fit the different
interests she shares with different girl friends. If you
do this in a light-hearted way, with good humor, both of
you could learn a bit about what it is like to be the
opposite sex.
Another joint venture that you and your new heart throb
could work on is to capture the essence of each other on
canvas. Yes, I mean paint one another’s picture, but
make it harder to accomplish by limiting yourselves to a
sketch pad and a tin of kid’s paints (You know the
kind!) Or you could use a box of colored chalk, pencils,
or whatever you choose. And to add another degree of
difficulty to the art project, you could decide the style
that will be used. May I suggest modern art for your first
foray into the world of the artiste? Abstract art does not
require, for instance, placing the eyes necessarily in
their usual positions, but you can paint an elbow or a big
toe in close proximity to an eyeball. And, by all means,
use splashes of color anywhere you like. This will be “Your
Impression” of each other, not a realistic rendering.
Make nice frames for your works of art, or place them on
larger paper so there is a border all around your
astonishing work. You may have to study various artists,
such as Picasso and Salvador Dali and others. If it isn’t
convenient to visit your local art museum or exhibit, just
look up artists on line to get more ideas. If your initial
art works are less than amazing, you can use your
refrigerator door to display the portrait your Christian
Date Mate painted of you. If your works are stunning,
which will likely be the case, you could talk about
displaying them at your work, or on your living room wall.
Decide what to do if someone offers you a lot of money for
your masterpiece.(If you want my opinion, I think the
artiste should keep the same model; after all, who can
argue with success?) Most importantly, have a ball doing
this project. Neither of you have to prove anything to
each other, as far as ability goes, because, after all, who
can judge modern art? One man’s trash is another man’s
treasure. Have a great time, with lots of laughs!
Enjoy the company of one another; that’s what its all
about!