CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
Have you given much thought to the marvelous complexity
of that “Earth Suit” God provided to house your spirit
and soul? He knew it would have to be very special, for
one day it would also be home to The Holy Spirit,
indwelling you when you welcomed Jesus, your Savior to
take your damaged life and give you Abundant Life instead,
free from the ravages of sin, guilt, and shame.
Christian men, always study the woman’s relationships
with others, other men that they talk about, children and
especially their family. If they have been arrested for
theft or drunk driving, or abuse toward anyone, you are
better off passing on a relationship with this troubled
woman, because remember, Christian Date Mate has over 5
million singles available, and more each day are signing
up for a membership. This means a particular woman you are
interested in is not the only pebble on the beach! Try to
discern between a woman whose life has always been in
disarray, full of drama like a drama queen, and a woman
who has made a few mistakes but is totally dependent upon
the Lord now and is working very heard to be the Christian
woman you could be proud of. We all have made mistakes; in
fact the Bible says we all have sinned and fallen short of
the glory of God.
So ask the Lord for discernment when you meet someone
who has made a few mistakes, but isn’t violent, mentally
ill, or law-breaking in nature. As you pray for
discernment, ask the Lord to help you tell when
your flesh and your desire for a Christian mate isn’t
allowing you to hear that “still, small voice” of the
Holy Spirit who is saying “no” or “be careful.”
Another good idea for Christian men dating online is to
ask advice from your sister, aunt, mother, grandmother, or
a platonic Christian female friend (anyone you totally
trust, and who does not “have an agenda” for your
life, “as in running your life.”) Feedback from
them, early on in your relationship, can help steer you
into safe waters, that being, finding a woman you can
trust with your future, your future children, and your
happiness.
