CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
Passive personalities just want to stay home, and not
be involved in any activity, including work. Many have
fears of the outside world, and they use this excuse to
avoid job-hunting. They differ from the person with
agoraphobia, which is the morbid fear of being alone in a
large open space. Their fear is not a phobia, but more
likely is an excuse, (fear of the world outside) so that
they don’t have to admit to themselves and others that
they are failures, too weak- willed to face the
embarrassing defeat of not being hired. If you recall,
many people see themselves as weak and unworthy, and
choose to call their problem depression, so that they won’t
have to admit being weak or unworthy.
These folks can be helped by asking them what frightens
them, and then when they see that these thoughts are over
blown, they can be coaxed to venture outside. In the
chapters on depression, you will find many techniques to
break the spell of depression that is really a front for
their perceived weakness and unworthiness which they have
come to believe. This will be a God-send to them, because
when they invited depression in, and declare that they
have depression, it worsens from that point on, and can
result in serious mental illness. They may have an
addiction which needs to be addressed too.
BEWARE OF THESE “DATES FROM HELL”
CHRISTIAN SINGLES!
Here, the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous can set them
free from alcohol and drugs. Be careful though, that they
do not attend Narconon meetings, as it has been reported
that this is a front organization for Scientology. You don’t
want them to fry their brains on the e-meter (lie detector
machine) do you? Just kidding, but the A.A. 12 Step
Program has a strong track record in helping those addicts
who really want to quit, to overcome the temptation. It is
free, and there are many chapters in your city.
