CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
One of the two middle-aged women I know who are, I
suspect, malignant narcissists, lies about her husband to
her pastor, telling him her husband is a control freak
with psychopathic tendencies, when in reality, this
describes herself, instead! But she tries to impress the
pastor with her long-suffering attempt to save her
marriage and bring her heathen husband to the Lord. In
reality, he is normal, and a believer, but he stays in the
marriage to protect their three year old daughter from her
fury. Her daughter from a previous marriage feared her
greatly, and at 18, she left home, finally having enough
courage to tell her mother “I’ve been terrified of you
all my life and I’m leaving for good.” The girl was
very obedient, quiet, and she was literally a slave, doing
all the housework and everything she could do to make her
mother happy. Little did she know that it was impossible
to please her, and that her mother was incapable of loving
her! When asked if she was unhappy that her daughter left,
she just shrugged and said “I don’t care- she was
never any good anyway.” There was no sorrow, or anguish
on her face as she said those words because there never
was any love for her daughter.
BEWARE OF THESE “DATES FROM HELL”
CHRISTIAN SINGLES!
While people close to the malignant narcissist see the
real person behind the mask; violent, abusive, screaming,
controlling, the narcissist can be very deceiving to
others; charming, playful, kind and generous. This is the
mask! Christian singles, beware if those closest to your
new love interest try to warn you! A good rule of thumb is
to see how this man or woman interacts with family
members. If no one in the immediate family wants to spend
time with them, or if the object of your affection never
talks about family or says they’re all impossible to get
along with, this is a red flag. You could understand it if
one family member was a bad seed, but when the whole
family rejects him, or he rejects them, look out!
