CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
Christian singles should take special note; these are
some of the warning signs of the abusive narcissist. Not
every narcissist will exhibit every sign, because their
descent into narcissism varies, and the roots of the
disorder can vary from a childhood of abuse and neglect to
a childhood of extreme parental permissiveness, where the
child was never told “No” and was allowed to break
every rule, having no boundary or limits. Christian
singles, if you are dating someone like this, please study
this person carefully and do not marry him or her unless
they can be brought back to sanity! In cases where
narcissism hasn’t reached the violent stage, and the
person doesn’t fly into a rage, verbally abusing
everyone in sight, there is some hope.
Later, I will tell you about some therapy that can “break
the spell of self-deception” if it is not too late and
the person can begin to understand that they do not need
to wear a mask of perfection to receive the praise they
need so desperately. But it is questionable whether they
can ever be free enough to truly love others, and not look
upon a spouse, their parents or their children as
possessions; sort of like stage props to exhibit their
superior qualities to whomever they want to impress. “Stage
props” is indeed an apt description for the people who
depend upon them, especially their unfortunate children.
Literally, “all the world is a stage“ to them.
Narcissists usually chose one or more persons whom they
respect, and they will do anything to impress these
authority figures, (usually a pastor, superior at work,
doctor, or someone with specialized knowledge.)
