CHRISTIAN SINGLES
GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING ADVICE
Obviously, we are not qualified to diagnose anyone’s
personality disorder, so all we can do is form a working
hypothesis, a possible explanation, based on their
unmistakable symptoms. If we are to be of any help to
those who have not deteriorated into a dangerous stage, we
need to study them, and slowly show them that we prefer
the person BEHIND the mask. The crazy things they say can
be countered by an insistence that they question these
wild, unsubstantiated notions. We will look into methods
which have helped some narcissists who were not completely
under the spell. More on that, later.
BEWARE OF THESE “DATES FROM HELL”
CHRISTIAN SINGLES
Most importantly, Christian singles, even the most
obnoxious, dangerous narcissist deserves our respect, and
our prayers. We can ask God to reveal to us what we
can do to point the narcissist to a REAL relationship with
Him, and we can pray against the spell of self-deception.
Unfortunately, the disorder places the narcissist firmly
at odds with the Lord, because he has inadvertently
committed the worst of the seven deadly sins, PRIDE! This
is overweening pride, (not the innocent good feeling when
we have learned a new skill, or a child has received an A
on a test.)
You will see that many narcissists go to church, and
many of them are sure that God is on their side, and
judges their enemies just as harshly as they do! Critics
of our faith may blame Christianity for producing this
personality disorder, but this is false. We are taught to
be humble, and even consider others as better than
ourselves!!! This is God’s vaccine to
prevent overweening pride, a deadly spiritual disease.
Narcissists around the world use the prevailing religion
as part of their façade. Their God or gods, of course,
are in agreement with them as well.
